There's only one decision
Who are you? Who might you be? Whom do you want to be?
It's your choice.
It's a choice that starts with how we speak to others.
Actually, it starts with how we speak to ourselves, the stories we tell ourselves, the goals we set for ourselves, the way we discipline our thoughts and words and actions.
And if we aren't sure, the people we attract will let us know, either by holding us to a higher standard or encouraging us to abandon our aspirations.
What will you decide?